He does have a comfortable bed, just for one person. It's okay though because you will most likely be unconcerned and move onto someone or something more engaging anyway. The truth is that none of us can fix someone else, and sometimes going our own way, despite how it can hurt a codependent person is the best for both partners. I dont know what to do, and I know if I try to bring this up hell just get **** and tell me to accept his hobbies because he said that earlier when I tried bringing up how his addiction is affecting our relationship. I want a guy who cares about me a lot, sure, but not someone who sabotages their own life to be with me. Repeating the same things over and over and hoping that it will bring back the excitement you once had is common, says Dr. Nelson, who suggests having a conversation about how to shake up your intimate life. That's not an always type trait of course, but often enough you may talking in a commanding way and like to have full attention when you do. You certainly don't have to adjust yourself to suit anyone else, keeping in mind that learning to gain some calmness in life will only help you but I don't think you should do it to suit someone that's going to judge you for that quality. I didnt want to be unsympathetic, so I helped him out. What would you do if you were in my situation? When he asked what was wrong, I yelled out of frustration, Youre so clueless! (Admittedly, I could have handled this better as well.). I would grow weary of any guy saying he loves me but doesn't know much about me unless there is a connection that is natural and pure and loves naturally blooms . While he never argues with me or criticizes things he doesnt like, he criticizes himself a lot. If your boyfriend will only have a conversation with you about super serious stuff when you're both hanging out at his place, or if he's always continuing a fight there, you should know that he's manipulating you. // Who Is Tania Kernaghan Husband, Is Jeff Gellman Married To Joelle, Youngest Mlb Debut Since 2000, Articles M